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“I don’t put effort into my appearance to attract attention from men (‘male attention is abundant and low-value’). I do it because it feels like putting on armor, another layer of protection against being vulnerable. There’s also a sense of being intimidating and ‘above reproach’ that feels safe — like, you can try to critique me, but not my appearance.”
“It really just reflects how messed-up social dynamics can be (and shoutout to the childhood trauma of habitual bullying 💕).”
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