We asked members of the BuzzFeed Community who have been the “other person” in a relationship to tell us how they learned of their partner’s “double life.” Here are the gut-wrenching stories they shared: 1. “About 50 years ago, I ...

Look, I’m not married. But I’d always thought that if I was, I’d want to spend most (if not all) of my vacations with my spouse. At least, that was until I stumbled across this post in the “Am I ...

We all know the story: When you’re in a relationship, it’s easy to spot (or deny) any red flags in the name of love. But for trained professionals — like experienced couples therapists — they’re often a lot more obvious, ...

1. “Being funny. I met a woman recently who did different voices to describe an interaction she’d had. It was so charming and entertaining.” 2. “The way she looks at you. Eyes are my weakness.” —u/OnlyPenguin 3. “Deliberately dancing badly ...

If you’ve ever gotten a weird, cringey, or low-key desperate text from an ex, then welcome! These 16 people can totally relate and they even shared screenshots from their own inbox for us to get secondhand embarrassment from. 1. This ...